As you make your way in life, there are many ways to go. Each choice is to be made by you and you alone, even when you are in a relationship. Your happiness is your responsibility and if you do not see this then you will be chasing happiness every day. With every choice that you make in your life, you should think how it will affect you and then you can see how it is going to help or hinder you.
In all decisions there are both pro’s and con’s that come with them. To be able to see what is the best path you need to take the time needed to see how they will play on your life to come. As you look at both sides of the decision, any choice that is to be made is sometimes hard to make as it will change the path you are on.
Once you have made your choice then the new path is shown for you to follow. You can change your mind, however you can only move from where you are at the time as you can not go back in time to change it. Thus, as the wise person that takes a longer time to make their decision because they do not change their mind after they make the decision after making it.
With making any choices in your life you can make a snap decision and find out that it was a poor decision. So many people fall into this trap since they have no experience in making the big decision. The decision like what path to take as a career, to buy a house or rent, to get married and starting a family comes as the big choices that are seen first after leaving you parent’s house. The reason for this is because that is when you are starting your adult life these are important decisions to make. There is no right or wrong choice in these three decisions.
Most young people will stumble and hopefully learn some lessons before they make any major decision. That is only the hope that I have for all the kids who are starting there life outside of their parent’s place. I know that I made my mistakes, and I have learned from them. The thing is I took responsibility for my actions and as I got older, I have become wise. Now I take my time to make my decisions.
That wise person only comes from learning from their choices that have been made. In every lesson comes wisdom no matter what it was. If you follow the pack and do what everyone else are the lessons learnt. The wise lead their own lives and some of the wise remain single in their life as they know what kind of life they want. Others marry and have a family which makes it harder when the decision of having to move somewhere else to further your career.
As most people remain in simple lives where they are lead to futures that are created for them from someone else. The saying is you may mot be happy, but you do not have to make the difficult decisions. It happens at your job, at home and most of these people who are guiding you say they know what is best for you. The truth is that taking control of your life will rub everyone in a negative way because you are making decisions for yourself. Always be true to yourself and live the life you want.
Stay safe.
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